I'm still drifting. Or at least I feel like I am. I'd like to think that I'm anchored while the world around me is being tossed about. That's probably a bit arrogant, though.
I don't know where to turn for solid advice. God is there to listen to my pleas, but I'm not hearing much advice from Him. One friend (who is a terrific, wonderful gal) has listened, and tried to help me understand my husband's doubts. And while I do want to understand, I still feel like I'm treading water. Or spinning my wheels. Another friend encourages me to seek marital counseling. I'm not opposed to that, but it isn't cheap, we're on a very tight budget, and I'm sure my husband wouldn't be thrilled about it. Plus, at the moment, I don't feel like my marriage is in peril. I feel like my husband is being swallowed by these doubts! Who can help me with this? I need some serious advice. And it would be great if the advice was helpful and productive, too.